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Thursday, August 14, 2008

Of Love..

Love.. love love..
Why does it hurt so bad?
Why is happy?
So Many Questions about love but truly love is a mysterious feeling....

They say: "Love is Blind!" yeah you've heard about this one. Others may say: "Love conquers all!", "Love is the greatest gift of all!" etc., etc.

But, what is Love actually?!?

Uhmm... Personally its hard to explain... and you may think or say that I'm not the expert on this subject, and honestly I am not. And, to tell you frankly I've been hurt and I know I've hurt some by showing the wrong kind of Love.

Wrong Kind of Love???

So... How can you really Love someone?

Base on my experience (not that great all the times) let me make some suggestions...

1. To really LOVE someone must, LEARN TO LET GO. Let go of what? Let go of your feelings to others, let go of things that will hurt the relationship, let go of things that will not strengthen the love you feel, and at some extreme point... LET GO OF THE ONE YOU LOVE.

2. To really LOVE someone must, Commit to ONE and ONLY. Yeah, yeah yeah. ONE and ONLY. Let me just say because YOU can't LOVE two person exactly the same. Even the Bible tells us that you can't serve TWO masters, for you'll love the other or hate the other.

3. To really LOVE someone must, be VERACIOUS. You must be true to what you said and commit to it 100%. Be honest.

4. And Lastly. To really LOVE someone must, Love ETERNALLY. Yeah yeah its hard to do but its just the way it goes. 'Till death do you part. Until the end of time.

You may ask why am I writing about this?
Simple, I've made mistakes and been hurt so bad and hurt someone also showing the wrong kind of love, and, I don't want to make that mistake again.

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